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Fortunately, my life path and education allowed me to see them and fix them.That's why I'm now trying to bring my insight to others.They are all just things I successfully manage for the benefit of myself and my partner.I don't share these things to boost my own credentials or "rub it in".

I learned to trade and exchange with a partner as equals, for the things that actually met my real physical and psychological needs. If you can't trade them in for reciprocity and effort from a partner at a later date, then you've simply been shined on, conned, and validated. I don't expect everyone to understand or agree with this perspective. It certainly won't appear politically correct, new-age loving, or kind to myself. Learn to set boundaries, negotiate, and make others trade fairly with you to meet both your needs.

Nevertheless, I labored under this entitlement fantasy for much of my early years. Instead, I tried to figure out what elicited loving feelings in others, what features and value made someone attractive, and worked to get those features too.

Frankly, it was easier than doing the work to change myself back then. Yes, I still struggle with my weight, but I maintain it as best I can.

In other words, if they are able, many people don't trade fair. I thought my lovers would be grateful for my time and social skills. So, if I didn't care about myself, then really why should anyone else? We traded our tangible value and concrete services in a relationship for nothing more than "feel goods" and validation.

I thought my care and concern would be reciprocated without asking. Here again, many people get bitter and distrustful of the opposite sex. But, ALL people don't deserve to be put in that category. If I let "bad people" take advantage of me, then I was partially to blame. When you are dependent on the approval of others to feel good, that seems like a fair trade.

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